Ernie Thayer

Who do you think you are! No, really, who do you think you are? Who are you without any idea of who you are? If you hold no image of yourself, what are you? I can see that if I have any self-image, I can be hurt. You can say I’m not who I think […]

Here are a few challenging statements about love relationships: • When we’re in love, we are experiencing our own beauty. • Relationships don’t work well if you expect much from them. • If you use a relationship to feel better, you’ll both wind up feeling worse.

I have had so many interesting conversations this week. Several fascinating realizations occurred in the process, among them: • Under the glow of warm, unjudging attention, anger reveals something true about a person that until then was unavailable to their awareness. The anger disappears, and deep ease replaces it. New directions appear… • When there […]