{"id":34,"date":"2007-01-29T22:19:57","date_gmt":"2007-01-30T06:19:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.erniethayer.com\/2007\/01\/29\/34\/challenging-relationship-statements\/"},"modified":"2007-03-08T13:16:26","modified_gmt":"2007-03-08T21:16:26","slug":"challenging-relationship-statements","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/2007\/01\/29\/34\/challenging-relationship-statements\/","title":{"rendered":"Challenging Relationship Statements"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here are a few challenging statements about love relationships:  <\/p>\n<p>\u2022\tWhen we\u2019re in love, we are experiencing our own beauty.<br \/>\n\u2022\tRelationships don\u2019t work well if you expect much from them.<br \/>\n\u2022\tIf you use a relationship to feel better, you\u2019ll both wind up feeling worse.  <!--more--><br \/>\n\u2022\tIf you keep a secret in your relationship, the secret is that you believe you can be ruined, and it isn\u2019t true.<br \/>\n\u2022\tIf you are fighting in your relationship to be loved and seen, you\u2019d be better off moving back in with your parents. (Ouch!)<br \/>\n\u2022\tWhen you believe you have a problem because of your partner&#8217;s problems, you have a real problem.<br \/>\n\u2022\tEvery attempt you make to change your partner keeps you from changing.<br \/>\n\u2022\tIf you believe your loved one makes you happy, you could be in for a tragic end, like Romeo &#038; Juliet.<br \/>\n\u2022\tIf you need a promise to stay forever, you will probably shorten the length of the relationship.<br \/>\n\u2022\tIf you understand true commitment, you\u2019re more likely to remain for the rest of your life.<br \/>\n\u2022\tEverything unconscious in you will stand ready to entangle with a loved one.<br \/>\n\u2022\tIf you don\u2019t know who you really are, you can\u2019t have a satisfying relationship with someone who does.<br \/>\n\u2022\tIf you don\u2019t know who you really are, you will likely have troubled relationships with others who also don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n<p>I trust these statements are fun, challenging, and worth your consideration\u2026 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here are a few challenging statements about love relationships: \u2022 When we\u2019re in love, we are experiencing our own beauty. \u2022 Relationships don\u2019t work well if you expect much from them. \u2022 If you use a relationship to feel better, you\u2019ll both wind up feeling worse.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-34","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erniethayer.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}